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"*life is a road...tat we must walk..to archieve wat we ve sought! a part of my life!!...*^" +
"*When I was just a little girl...*^" +
"*My momma used to tuck me into bed and she read me a story*^" +
"*It always was about a Princess in distress*^" +
"*And how a guy would save her and end up with the glory...*^" +
"*I'd lie in bed and think about the person that I wanted to be...*^" +
"*Then one day I realized the fairy tale life wasn't for me*^" +
"*I don't wanna be like Cinderella..*^" +
"*Sittin' in a dark old dusty cellar*^" +
"*Waiting for somebody, to come and set me free*^" +
"*I don't wanna be like Snow White waiting*^" +
"*For a handsome prince to come and save me..*^" +
"*On a horse of white, unless we're riding side by side...*^" +
"*Don't want to depend on no-one else*^" +
"*I'd rather rescue myself *^" +
"*Someday I'm gonna find someone who wants my soul, heart and mind*^" +
"*Who's not afraid to show that he loves me*^" +
"*Somebody who will understand I'm happy just the way I am *^" +
"*Don't need nobody taking care of me*^" +
"* I will be there for him just as strong as he, will be there for me*^" +
"*When I give myself then it has got to be, an equal thing*^" +
"*I can slay, my own dragon*^" +
"*I can dream, my own dreams*^" +
"*My knight in shining armour is me*^" +
"*So I'm gonna set me free *^" +

`` its my lifee. [#] `-

Sunday, October 16, 2005

We all get labelled by other people along the way.it z when u choose to believe these labels that u might be limiting yourself!!!~~that z the pro with doing somthing out of ordinary.Walk down the stairs quite normally a thousand times and no one notices-_- .fall down the stairs once and suddenly you'rekate n klutz!~miracle a..you may not stumblr over things anymore than other people dp...but everyone will start commentine when you do,all yyou mightfind yourself suddenly acting clumsy in your school,college o company of those who get a kick out of ur lack of co-ordination.Everyone benifits from tiz..U get attention and we they get the confort of being able to define u,even if it zin a very vry smal n lil way~don't believe??u can try and ask every high school students o some pr...

It's entirely understandable,this attaching of convenient labels to people!!don judge people without knowing them well....it makez them easier to describe.people will alwayz b defined by their nationality,their job physical characteristics.but!!sometimes the label they r given carries unfair assumptions.In out more intimate circlez we b come defined by quirks that don;t necessarily give real clues to our personalities,again....it;z understandable..in this real world,it is just as difficult to shed the various captions that ve been pinned on our heads.the way we c ourselves wil alwayz be influenced by the perceptions we think others have of us,so if the people around us are constantly reinforcing the myth that we r shy or clownish o difficult o weird!!we will wan to behave exactly that way!~

label on people??turn off!!different situations bring out different sides of us...n so do different human in tiz world..
we may achieve all sorts of personal growth and change,but very often our behaviour is unduly influenced by the expectations people have of us.
In starts in d family...where children are often assigned different places..the brat//the responsible one,the wild one??the quiet one...the crazy one..n so on ehehe`~As adults ..they might b nothing like that child...is depends on how u people revert back to type when they r e back in a family situation.

eheh,try n have alook at your close bud when they're with their parents...if you get the chance la.It's extraordinary how often super duper achieve turn into helpless ninnies who need to advice on what socks to wear...calm..tranquil types suddenly start throwing tantrums..
Well..sometimes i do feel ashame whenever i saw my bud helping their parents doing some housework ...n so on..hehe sorry la,i love my parents in my heart''i m sure that my cousin will knock my head when she c tis''.! Upsetting the status quo by challenging their assumptions about you might effect your frenship,you might end upquestioning wheter those friendships are based on anything more than history.Or u might be afreaid that they won like u anymore if u deprive them of their preconceptions and they have to get to knowyou all over again...

When u hav a vested interesr in ur very own label,you don stop to think about whether it's accurate or whether it's..how 2 walk to b....

well..i realize finally i m posting some important issues n not some craps with some fancy words,ehh..acording to my previous post,i m not crapping also lerr!! just talking bout irrelevant and some unimportant issuesni la,that's one of my hobbies le,bikaboom..
summer,righ right/??

well,lets continue,there s nothing sinister at work here.Myths and labels are born,in most cases,out of close frenshipz.but a..some human allowed to continuee unchecked,can end up diminishing or perhaps even harming us.Many ''woman''battle with the change of label when they become mothers..with old friends they try to remain exactly as they were before they had children,which isn;t always realistically possible..wana knoe why??go ask ur mother!
It is perhaps easier for woman who have expereinced obvious,erternal chanegs,such as pregnancy,to get their friends to c them in a broader light?other shifts are less easy to bring about.If yours are good friends,however,they will be willing to put up with you...hehe even if you ve decided that u can no longer be defined as the drunk,the ditz,the down-to-earth girl or the diva who dominates the room!!serious ..no joke,it happend all the timez..ofcourse,not me!! duh..my cousin sis told me about it..!!

This may not be a disaster ,as long as it doesn;t place strain on other relationships.All too often,though,the myth turns around and butes u.When a partner cant undeerstanmd why u turn into a monster around ur old buddies,though you're fairly conservative and well-behaved in most other situations...u can try n explaining that the label u made you do it..o u can take a step back and ask yourself if you really believe in the person you're acting for the benifit of ur friends...if not?it might b time to introdice the more complex you!!sometimes,those closet to us donot c as we really are...we have to point this out to them..!!well..is not that w e r a copletely different person fr the one u guyz knoe

0000000000000rig.. stephy....u get wat i meanz rig rig rig.!!~well..letz start crapping n talking bout irrelevant and ofcourse some unimportant issues now!!

[x] *i can'tbe perfecto* ((://*
9:13 AM

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found yourself here huh. delighted, yes?

welll. the secret compartment has no secrets.
Shatter dreams broken life
Disaster without warning will always strike
I happened again and again
As if you have a target my friend
I have seen so many things
Broken lives shattered dreams
A life that is not what it means
It simply broken apart at the seams
A life with that is not fair
Some are rewarded who simple don't care
Being at the right point in time
Can cause supply and demand to pay you out just fine
A wrong turn down a fateful journey
Can cause you to be hurt badly
Pain that is hidden and excuses made
As if your committed suffering was not prepaid
Life is often cruel and unfair
All to often other people don't care
Lonely at the top you must be a fool
Suffer alone always is the most sadistically cruel
Win and the world lays at you feet
Hit an accident ands there will be few people to meet
Get credit when you win
Blame when you lose for you sins
It is a crime to be week society says
How you got there doesn't matter
Punish the weak and make them scatter
Often life dose to you what it can
Your crime is you are weak or unlucky in the end
So be strong and head my advice my friend
Only true survivors win ever again
It can be impossible to wait out a storm
A drowning man so tired can't even whistle a horn
So fight to the end I am bitter sworn
Tragedy won't make me bitter torn
I always wait out my protagonist in the end
My life's work is what I shall always defend
As if time heals all wounds
I say it won't
But thing go full circle but I don't

im slipping off the edge

im hanging by a thread

i wanna start this over again.